But I have never actually matched when I sent thoughtful messages, which is like 95% of the time. ", Lol! I say this as a person that has failed a lot haha. I understand your struggles. Age and preference filters are ignored. Why does saying you also like skiing or cooking or whatever seem weird to you?? After that, I make a nice comment about their choice, greet them, and ask how their day or week/weekend went. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Press J to jump to the feed. People are so used to sleazy texts that genuine interest appears sinister! Good openers tend to make for longer, more interesting conversation. For instance, I'm a varsity athlete on a Softball team and one time a guy message me asking if I played outfield because I was an angel. This is the kind of question I like to be asked since it doesn't take much thought and pressure is low. If they’re interested for real, they’ll hold a conversation, like a grown woman who is actually interested in meeting a guy, in person. I'd keep at it!

We create meaningful connections that spark hearts and inspire people to share themselves authentically and enthusiastically. I have previously swiped right on 500 women on Bumble and messages only with one. Don’t be discouraged. Same issues. Sometimes bagels don't respond to my messages.

Why go into all that personalized stuff, off the rip. Everyone isn’t mandated to like everyone or act like they do. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the coffeemeetsbagel community.

I would especially want to talk to someone who carefully crafts his bio. It's a bleak world for brown people on the online dating scene (okcupid has numbers on this). Press J to jump to the feed. Of course they limit anything worth while to suck away your hard earned money. But to answer your question, I do respond to every message I get. If the two of you can’t get past basic formal stuff, like: “Hi, how are you / I’m fine, how are YOU”... there’s no interest being shown toward you. And others are universal. It doesn’t matter what you think up.

(I personally got really tired of hearing “hey!”) I always enjoyed the fun original icebreakers. Despite if I’m physically attracted to your photos — but I also reply to everyone who messages me as common courtesy and manner. As in chatting quite well for first two days by asking qns to each other, will they suddenly ghost you ???

I know not all females may do this. but I also reply to everyone who messages me as common courtesy and manner. He called me the next day to ask me out for Valentine’s Day. The times when I did get a match, I usually sent (cheesy) no-brainers like, "Is my display brightness set to max or are you just glowing? But that’s just me. They either want to open themselves up to interaction with you, or not. Seems like a perfectly legitimate thing to say when someone’s profile actually has a total of maybe 20 words on the whole profile if that and if you connect to someone’s hobby, why not point that out? You don’t even know if they still use the app. You’ll feel more frustrated by trying to carry a conversation and wasting your time than had you just said ‘hi, how are you?’... and got no response. I was just wondering? .

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